Meeting and attracting women is a very much interesting game. Many men get nervous when they meet an attractive woman. They start behaving like a perfect gentleman and hope to get the affection and attraction of the woman. Sadly, it never happens. Women are attracted to men not by their “gentleman behavior” but by something else most of men have no clues of.
If you want to attract women, stop doing what you were taught to do with woman—being overly nice. Woman by nature are attracted to confident and dominant men. If you come across a woman as submissive and weak she will definitely not get attracted to you ever. Behave confidently with her. Don’t do what most of men do. Instead of complimenting her for something or the other, try to tease her or bust on her. She will love it. Show your sense of humor and crack jokes and make her enjoy your company. Don’t bore her.
Being challenging or unpredictable is very much attractive to women. If a woman finds a certain man unpredictable she gets hooked to him instantly. Keep behaving unpredictably with her. This behavior will keep her on her toes and she will keep guessing what you will do the next. Once you know her and get her contact number, don’t make the mistake of calling her all the time. It is not done. Call her infrequently. Make her miss you. People tend to love things that they miss. Let her miss your company. In the further interactions with her keep being confident and unpredictable.
It is very much necessary to keep your feelings in control. Many men when they meet an attractive woman get overwhelmed and make the big mistake of expressing their love for the woman too soon. Romanticizing of the three words—I love you—in cinema, novels and poetry is responsible for many a men saying these words to a woman too soon. They think it is just what they are supposed to do. Don’t do it! It is a big mistake! In your further interaction start flirting with her. Remember, flirting is an art form that makes the woman feel very powerful attraction for you. Once a woman starts feeling attraction for you she will not be able to stop her feelings for you. Better still, start flirting with her right from the first meeting.
When you feel that the woman is already attracted to you, don’t make the mistake of becoming too nice, submissive or mellow other wise she will stop feeling those powerful emotions for you. You know that a woman is attracted to you when she tries to keep your company, calls you frequently, tries to touch you by some pretext and generally tries to hold your attention. At this period the woman expects you to express your love for her and say “I love you”. Don’t do it!
Don’t be stupid by saying “I love you” or some other stupid line intended to show your love for her. If you make this mistake she will stop feeling attraction for you as she will now know that you are in love with her and you will stop being challenging for her.
Instead of expressing your love for her in words, start getting physical with her. Try to kiss her. If she hesitates, try to do it after some time. Once you have kissed her start going further on. Remember that if you fail to take the things to the physical level, eventually she will lose attraction for you. In that case either she will leave you or you will become just a “friend” for her.
So, be confident , assertive, unpredictable, challenging and fun-loving, and attract women like you never did before.