It is quite natural for many of men to compliment women at the first chance. Men are too eager to compliment women to catch their attention.

The fact is that women love compliments and it make them feel good. However, there is a problem. All the beautiful women keep getting compliments all the time and actually many of them are just too bored of getting them. So meeting a woman for the first time and complimenting her is not a good idea.

There is also a difference between complimenting a woman you just met and complimenting the one you are going steadily with. It is better to avoid complimenting a girl you just met or do not know well. You should better tease her.

However, you can compliment a girl you have dated several times. Remember, women actually like compliments from only those men they have been dating for several times.

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When you do all the right things to attract a woman she will start behaving differently. You will see that she is now more and more spending time with you, touching you and laughing at your jokes. You will also see that she will start giving you some subtle compliment or the other. It’s all due to the chemistry she is now feeling for you.

When a woman likes a man she is more subtle than a man. She usually gives compliments like “you are cute” and sometimes will try to touch your hands or shoulders. Many of men when get any compliment from a woman and know that she likes him start behaving like some idiot and start giving her compliments and generally being nicer. Don’t do that!

When there is a lot of sexual chemistry between you and her, don’t let all the chemistry go away. Don’t be nice and submissive or let her become you boss. Don’t make this mistake! Just continue to behave the way you did earlier. Don’t become a little child in need of love and protection just because she now likes you.

Remember, a woman’s feelings for you can change any time. If a woman likes you today it doesn’t mean that she will continue to like you forever. Because woman don’t have any control about how they feel about a person. It’s all chemistry dear! As I mentioned earlier, a woman continues to like you only and only if you continue to behave in a confident, assertive, challenging and unpredictable way. She will be disappointed with you and will leave you if you become weak, submissive and predictable. It’s because by nature women like to be dominated by men. It’s in their genes.

So, if a woman compliments you or says “I like you” don’t say something nice like “I like you, too.” Instead say something that increases sexual chemistry she is feeling for you or don’t say anything. It will confuse her further as she will not be able to know about your feelings for her and she will be more attracted to you.

hus, in response to the woman’s words like “I like you” or “you are so cute/funny” you can say “I always knew” or “I can see you have fallen in love with me” or just say “Ok.” Or don’t say anything.

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Understanding woman is very important if you want to have success with them. It is said that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. It is not far away from truth. There is indeed difference in the way men and women communicate. Men think mostly logically where women think emotionally. So, some times what a woman says does not make any sense to a man, when it makes perfect sense to her.

It is very important to understand how women communicate. Most of the times women don’t mean what say and they also don’t want men to take it literally. But most of men don’t understand that kind of communication and most of the times they take what a woman says literally. It results in men doing strange things. For example a woman says that she likes a man who is sensitive, it doesn’t mean that she wants a man who all the time keeps talking about mushy things and even cries in front of her. A man normally takes this communication literally and tries to be more and more sentimental in communication with her in an attempt to impress her and win her heart. It results in the woman getting irritated and bored of him.

When a woman says a certain thing she already has some other thoughts and feelings in her mind that she does not say at that time. You should leant not to take what a woman says literally all the time, especially if she says things that can be interpreted in more than one way.

The bottom line is that whatever a woman says, all she wants at the end of the day is a confident, dominant, challenging, unpredictable and fun loving man. Don’t try to be anything else just because you thought she wants you to be something else.

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When you meet a woman you may be curious to know whether she is interested in you or not. There are various ways to know whether the woman you just met or you have dated a couple of times likes you or not.

When you meet a woman for the first time whether she likes you or not depends on you. It depends on you behavior and the first impression. In the first interaction try to tease the woman about something. Or bust on her. Be confident and in control of the situation. Don’t be nervous and submissive. Say something funny or tease her and see if she engages you back. If she takes interest in whatever you say and she engages you back in return then she is interested in you. Now it’s up to you to keep it up and keep her engaged with your fun and interesting conversation. Through your behavior show to her that you are a confident, dominant, unpredictable and fun loving person.

When you do all the right things to attract a woman, after a few interactions she will start behaving differently. You will see that she is now more and more spending time with you, touching you and laughing at your jokes. You will also see that she will start giving you some subtle compliment or the other. It’s all due to the chemistry she is now feeling for you.

When a woman likes a man she is more subtle than a man. She usually gives compliments like “you are cute” and sometimes will try to touch his hands or shoulders.

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I think among the most overrated words in this world are “I love you.” Through cinema, poetry, novels and general literature these three words have been so much romanticized that every man wants to find a woman and say these words. Forget the imaginary, literary and reel life, in real life using these words have exactly the opposite impact and harm your case if you are trying to attract a woman.

Human mind works in a strange way. Most of time we want to get something and the moment we get it we suddenly lose interest in it. It’s all part of human psycholology. So, imagine a situation when you have met a wonderful woman and have dated her a couple of times and you share an obvious chemistry with her. And it’s time to express your love for her. Traditionally and socially you are now supposed to say “I love you” to her and expect “I love you too” in return. To hell with cinema, poetry, literature and tradition, don’t use the three words. It will have a negative impact on the attraction and chemistry she is feeling for you.

As I mentioned earlier always be in control with woman, be confident and dominant, and never let her be in control. Expressing your love for her in words like “I love you” or “I like you” will give the power and control of the situation to her. And without consciously realizing it, she will lose much of attraction and chemistry she is feeling for you as she will feel she has won you. Remember, these are the words she wanted to hear right from the moment she talked to you for the first time. The moment you say so she will achieve her target and will lose much of her interest in you. As you know it is often said that we humans lose around 40% of interest in things after we get them.

So, what to do if you want to show or express your love for her? Get physical dear! Try to kiss her and then take things to the next physical level. That way she will know your feelings for her.

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Dating and social networking sites are a great medium to meet so many attractive and available women. It is the fastest and easiest medium to meet them. It is also great for those people who are a bit shy in meeting and attracting women in person. If you lean how to attract and meet women online you can have great success with lots of women.

There are some problems in meeting women online. One is competition. Dating and social networking sites offer profiles of lots of attractive women. Though you will find literally hundreds of men trying their luck on a single attractive woman by posting their messages. Most of the messages are so boring and predictable that women hardly give any response to. Another problem is that you have limited tools like photos and words to attract women. It requites practice. Another problem is that some women posting their profiles on the sites don’t have any intention to meet men in person.

If you want to succeed in meeting women online, it is necessary to learn what will get the attention of women online. Post messages that are different from the ones posted by other men. Don’t write a message that shows that you have a docile and submissive personality. Don’t ask about her education or job or other boring things. Don’t write the most boring “how are you?.” If you fail to make the right first impression you will never get the second chance.

Post some message teasing her about something in her profile. It works most of the time. After you get a message back try to tease her more. It will make her realize that you are a fun loving person to be with. After initial messages try to get her phone number. It is necessary, otherwise you will remain just one of her online pals. Many of women don’t like to give their contact number to men they have met online. Use your sense of humor like cracking jokes to get the number. Say “I just want to talk to you to know whether you a woman or some weirdo or a guy posing as a woman.” If she is not willing to give the number try to get her email ID. If she is not willing to give even her email ID just think she is not serious about a date and she just loves male attention. Don’t waste your time on this woman and try on some other one.

If you get the contact number of a woman give her a call after some days. This time also on phone tease her about something. Then propose to meet her in person. Try to seem busy on the phone and say that “lets meet for a coffee only. If we meet on lunch and if I find you boring I will have to leave you by making some excuse.” It will make you challenging and interesting in her eyes.

In most of the cases you will feel the woman you are meeting in person different from the one you saw in her profile photo. Get ready for that. Keep the first meeting short. Ask for the second date only if you like her. If you like each other continue to date her and take things to the next levels by kissing her and getting physical with her.

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You may have often seen very attractive women going out with jerks or abusive men. On the other hand you may have also seen really nice guys without any girlfriend. You may have also gone through some experience when you tried to be very nice to a woman and still failed to attract her.

It is often seen an attractive woman having an affair with a mean jerk guy and talking about this relationship to a really nice guy, but still not leaving the jerk for this nice one. By instinct, most of us know that women are not attracted to men who are nice and who generally behave quite nicely with women. It’s absolutely true! Nice men are not attractive to women. But why?

As I mentioned earlier, women are attracted to certain personality traits of a man more than his looks or wealth. Of course some women will settle for men with exceptional looks or wealth only but majority of women are attracted to a man’s personality than any thing else. So what is attractive to women that nice guys do not have and mean jerks have? Is it the abusive behavior that women are attracted to? No. It’s personality traits like confidence, attitude, unpredictability and dominance. By chance, jerks have them and nice guys don’t have.

It doesn’t matter what other people think about you—nice guy or a jerk. You have to have personality traits like dominance, confidence and unpredictability to attract women. Women don’t think and decide about who to attract to. They don’t have any control about attraction. It happens by itself. And once they are attracted to a man due to his personality they will have no control about it. Even they will try to rationalize and excuse his abusive behavior to stay with him. They don’t think that “I should get attracted to this man because he is a nice guy/a jerk.” They are simply attracted to the man who has the earlier mentioned personality traits and behavior.

The problem with nice guys is that they give all control to an attractive woman. They let her make decision. They always kiss up to her hoping to get her affection that never happens. Women get highly irritated by this behavior. By nature, women always want to be dominated by men. They begin to hate you the moment you give them all the power.

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It is well known that to attract a woman you need to be interesting. You can’t hope to create chemistry with a woman by being boring and predictable.

Learn to talk interestingly, crack jokes and make funny and unusual comments. It is very much necessary to keep the women on a date or on phone engaged and entertained. Women get bored of formal, predictable or boring talks.

Even when you have got a girlfriend and going steadily with her, it doesn’t mean that she will never leave you. If you become boring and predictable she will lose interest in you and then you risk losing her.

Surprise her with your behavior. After dating her for months, you can also become a bit nice towards her and give her some compliments. But don’t be too nice and don’t compliment her all the time. It’s highly boring from the point of view of a woman.

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Jealousy is a powerful emotion. It can make people have very strong feelings of hate or love. This emotion plays its role in all aspects of life. In the game of attraction it has interesting roles.

You must have seen in some movies that a woman doesn’t love a guy until she sees him with some other woman. It’s natural and often happens in real life as well. We humans often usually take things for granted. We don’t know the importance of something until we lose it. The same thing applies in our love lives as well.

Imagine a situation when you are chasing a woman and she is ignoring you or not giving you enough attention. Then you stop chasing her and go after some other woman. If the first woman sees you with the other woman usually she will be full of jealousy. It will provoke her feelings of completion. In this situation she will be full of animosity towards the other woman and will feel love for you. Her competitive spirit will now desperately want you to come back to her. She won’t like to lose all the emotional investments she did in you to a competition.

Remember that even if a woman is not giving you a good response to your courtship behavior she is happy to have you around. It makes her feel good to be in demand and gives her an ego boost. The moment you leave her she will feel bad and it will be a blow to her ego. That is why usually an attractive woman loves to have lots of men around kissing up to her, even if she has no real intention to date or love, or give positive response to any of them. It is a weakness of all women to be loved by as many people as possible. The more she feels in demand the more she feels better about herself. The worst ever situation for a woman is that when there is no man to express his love for her or kissing up to her. The situation will be a big blow to the woman’s ego and self image.

So, you can use this information about the feelings of jealousy to your advantage. When your girlfriend leaves you, just be cool about it and start dating and trying on other women right away. Remember there are lots of attractive women in the world and if your partner is not feeling sentimental about you then you should also not be an emotional fool. Don’t waste you time on the person who doesn’t love you. Start dating new woman and let it be known to the ex girlfriend. Most probably the moment she knows you are dating other woman she will come back to you.

It also means that if you don’t get much success in attracting a certain woman just leave her, stop chasing her completely and start trying on other woman. This way the woman is most likely to have feelings of love for you and come back to you.

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You may face competition from other men when you have found an attractive woman in your life as your girl friend. It is natural for men to keep trying on all the women all the time. Men try to pick on a woman even if they know that she is with some other guy. It is typical of men.

Most men don’t know how to face the competition from other men who are trying on their girlfriend. They are mostly fearful and insecure of losing her. Often they become possessive. It basically shows their insecurity and lack of confidence.

Men are fearful of losing their girlfriend to competition because deep down they are not confident of their ability to attract women. Once in a relationship they are highly insecure about it and always keep trying to stop their girlfriend from having any interaction with other men. It is also due to the feeling of jealousy.

Knowing how to deal with this situation is very important. If you act as an insecure and jealous guy in these situations it will send a wrong signal to your partner. She will know that you lack confidence and you are highly insecure about your ability to attract women. The solution of the problem is to work on your personality. After improving your personality you have confidence that you can attract any woman any time in your life. Thus you will stop being jealous and insecure and will send a positive signal to your partner.

It is better to just relax if a guy is trying on your girlfriend in some social situation. In most of these situations the guys fail miserably. After he has stopped his attempts just go to your girlfriend and share the experience and laugh. Picking up a fight or arguing with the guy only shows your lack of personality and insecurity. Remember, it is not attractive to women. If in some situation, your girlfriend is testing you by talking to other men, just relax and go and talk to other women till she comes back to you. It will send a positive signal to her that you are confident of finding and getting any woman any time.

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