 Cheating is an omnipresent threat to any marriage. But how do you know if your partner is really cheating on you? Here are some signs that your partner is having an extra marital relationship: When time flies If your partner's schedule changes dramatically for no reason other than the long working hours, you need to be a little suspicious. When he smells different When your partner radically changes the way that he or she smells, shaves, etc., you might be seeing a sign of his/her attempt to impress someone else. Sex doesn’t feel good You might find that your sex life changes dramatically when your partner is cheating. They might be trying new things in bed suddenly or have no interest in having sex at all. On phone in odd hours Any phone calls that your partner might be taking in the middle of the night or at strange times of the day can be an indication that they are hiding a relationship from you. Leave me alone! When your partner begins to pull away from you and spend more time on the computer or in another part of the house, there are chances he/she is contemplating to cheat on you. Unexplained bills Some partners do not cover their tracks well and may leave gifts they received or receipts for gifts that they bought for the new crush around the house. These unexplained purchases can be a clear indication of the extra marital affair. Darling I need to fly Few jobs will suddenly take your partner for last minute trips away from home. When you start to see this happening often, it is time for you to get suspicious Please don’t talk! If your partner seems aloof, detached, and even irritable. He/She will pick fights for no apparent reason. All this is a clear indication to show that the love you aspire is now gone. Just a good friend Your partner spends time alone with someone of the opposite sex, who is been referred to as a "good friend. When questioned, your partner will defend the friendship, and might as well insult you for thinking that way. Be vigilant of the missing link at this time. Caught loitering If you catch your partner lying about his/her whereabouts or activities. It is time for you to have an open conversation. Money talks You may notice that money has suddenly disappeared without a reasonable explanation. Your partner might be monopolizing the bank accounts and keeping you in lurch. You should smell the rat before its too late. Road signs If there is an unexplained decrease in mileage of the car. Always keep in mind that these signs are not the inevitable signs of cheating. Once you start feeling suspicious, ask your partner to have an open conversation with you rather than groom the green eyed monster in you!
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1Comment at Wednesday, 11 June 2008 10:39
good!!
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