Relationship Advice

Right, here goes! I recently cheated on my boyfriend of 16 months, everything was perfect and we had just got back off a holiday together where we got on really well. I had to tell him what i had done, at first he didn't let it sink in, it was only until i questioned him about it where it started to sink in what i have done, I have no excuses for what i did apart from the fact i felt i was being t...... More

ok, so i live with this girl, right? which complicates things a lot. she's a good friend of mine, but a little over a week ago we crossed over the friendship barrier and she cheated on her boyfriend with me. we decided time apart was the best thing for us so we could get over our feelings for each other and get things back to normal. so she's been staying over at his place 99% of the time so n...... More

hi thereplease helphow can i get my daughter to commuinicate with her father.? she has refused to talk to him since she was made a part of his affair againsnt me (he took her along with him while he had his last affair on me) she now feels she owes me her loyiality as much as i admire her for this i worry in the future that she may need him..... More

I had been with my man for 3 and a half years. A year ago he asked me to marry him, it was the happiest day of my life. He was always telling me how much he loved me and how beautiful I was. The last year we have had to live apart because of our jobs, things have been hard for us, but I thought he still loved me just as much. We were planning to move in together and had found somewhere and eve...... More

Hi, i dont think i should be too worried but i just want to put my mind at ease. I lost my virginity 3 days ago and it was protected sex as he wore a condom. I have also been ill and have been on penicillin tablets due to tonsilitis. I have noticed my vagina has become very itchy and i seem to have a whitish and quite thick discharge,my vagina also hurts a bit too. Could this be thrush? I've hurt ...... More

Hi There!I don't know quite how to explain this! But within the last hour, for at least 10 minutes I started feeling weak; I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint! I'm still a bit shaky, I dunno what it is? Also I've been very stressed lately, could this be linked to that awful sensation I've just experienced? And just to le...... More

In a bit od a situation nere and i feel awful for it, i can't stop crying, thing is i have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now, we were good at the start and for the past about 8 months he has no urge to have sex with me, this on the other hand made me think he was going off me but he kept reassuring me everything was fine and he's basically just not in the mood and does not kno...... More

Several months ago my boyfriend left a long and abusive marriage to move from the USA to be with me. We met up last summer and although I had a boyfriend, we emailed and gave up our relationships to be together.His wife, who is much more beautiful than me is now coming over to see to some admin affairs and wants to meet with him to get him to sign some documents. There is no need to meet, she ju...... More

i recently lost my virginity and people say you never have an orgasm on the first time. Am i weird because i did?? and Is it natural to be sore for a couple of days afterwards??.... More

i kissed another girl a few weeks ago and my girlfriend found out.i regret it so much and have absolutely learnt my lesson.but, my girlfriend left me and said that she couldnt be with me at the moment.i desperately want her back.what can i do..... More

can anybody help a looser??i feel like a complete nobody at the minute. i am so depressed and yes i know its my fault but i dont know what to do about it. i am a 15, female and live in the uk. have a mum, no dad, no grandparents and no other family. im an only child and me and my mum live on our own. because i have no family and have been excluded from school perminatly so dont see my frends i hav...... More

Dear ,I have been married for nearly 14 years to my husband. We have had the normal ups and downs, but we have made it through stronger than ever. Several months ago my husband had an emotional affair. I was absolutely devastated. My heart was shattered and feelings of inadequacy nearly overtook my very being. We have talked countless times about the effect that had on me and our relationship...... More

I suspect my husband is cheating. Its embarrassing because the whole town knows, but there is no way for me to get some solid proof that he's doing that. All the signs are there, the whole town tells me about it, he has a prepaid phone so that there will be no bill or records of phone number that i can see (his excuse is, that he got the prepaid phone to make calls to mexico and not have high expe...... More

I see on this forum that an affair is defined as a relationship in which the following two things occur:1) The relationship exists unbeknownst to a partner;2) There is sex involved.In addition I see this term "emotional affair", which implies #1 but not #2.I don't see a difference between an affair with sex or without sex. For me, if a relationship requires the two people to breach the trust of a...... More

My bf and I have been going out for 6 years. He and I have gone through a lot. He is always by my side when I am in trouble. And I stood by his side when his company is in bad shape.. I started cheating on my bf 2 years ago. I met someone online and started having affair with him behind my bf's back. At first I just want to have someone to hang around with coz my bf is very busy all the tim...... More